Happy Independence Day!

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In the name of Christ. Amen.

Yesterday, our nation marked its 250th birthday—two and a half centuries of this wild, messy, beautiful, and complicated democratic project. Across our neighborhoods and cities, tall ships sailed, festivals gathered, and fireworks lit up the night sky. For many, it felt like a continuous, nationwide celebration.

Yet beneath the festivities, many of us might be feeling something else as well: a deep sense of fatigue.

We are living in a moment when the noise surrounding us is extraordinarily loud—and not just from the fireworks. Our nation faces intense polarization, with different factions contending over the very definition of American identity. Daily life carries a heavy weight, marked by rising costs, international tensions, and a pervasive collective anxiety in our communities.

When fatigue sets in, the oldest human temptation is to give up—to pull the covers over our heads, withdraw from the chaos, and hope the storm blows over. But that is not who we are called to be.

The Myth of the Bootstrap

When we find ourselves overwhelmed by financial stress, broken relationships, mental health struggles, or the state of the world, our culture often responds with aggressive advice: "Pull yourself up by your bootstraps."

We are steeped in the modern myth of self-reliance—the idea that if you simply work harder, strain more, and rely on your own isolated willpower, you can lift yourself out of any hole.

However, the history of that phrase reveals something fascinating: when "pulling oneself up by one's bootstraps" was coined in the early nineteenth century, it was not an ideal; it was a joke describing a physical impossibility. Try leaning down, grabbing the straps of your shoes, and hoisting yourself off the ground into the air. It cannot be done. The harder you pull, the more likely you are to tear the leather.

Yet somehow, an intended absurdity became an accepted cultural ideal.

The Apostle Paul understood this internal frustration two thousand years ago. In his letter to the Romans, he offers one of the most candid confessions in all of scripture:

"I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate."

Paul tried a first-century version of self-reliance, attempting to repair his life solely through his own effort, only to watch it collapse. He realized that when we are trapped in the internal civil war of our own pain and anxiety, isolation becomes the problem rather than the solution. We cannot "bootstrap" our way out of a broken heart or deep trauma.

Enduring the Open Sea

How do we find the strength to move forward when we stumble?

Consider the story of Kelsey Finler, a competitive rower and river guide. Recently, she rowed a 21-foot boat into the harbor of Honolulu after spending 41 days entirely alone, rowing 2,400 miles across the open Pacific Ocean from California—breaking records along the way.

She did not embark on that dangerous journey to prove she was an invincible superhero. Rather, after experiencing severe PTSD while working as a guide deep in the Grand Canyon, she took to the open sea to process her pain stroke by stroke. She also sought to raise support for the Whale Foundation, an organization providing mental health resources to canyon river guides who face immense stress and trauma in their work.

She stepped into the boat to prove to herself that trauma would not have the final word in her life.

Consider also a defining scene from the movie Captain Marvel. Trapped, isolated, and facing an overwhelming force telling her she is weak and powerless without their control, the hero is knocked flat into the dirt. In that moment of defeat, she sees a montage of her entire life—crashing go-karts, wiping out on obstacle courses, falling down again and again.

The turning point was not that she was bulletproof; it was that every single time she fell, she got back up. She realized her true strength did not depend on external approval or an outside army—it was already within her.

As Christians, we believe that the inner strength enabling us to rise is not merely human grit; it is the Holy Spirit living within us. When we reach deep inside for wisdom and endurance, we find a presence greater than ourselves.

The Double Harness

In Genesis, we see young Rebecca standing by a well when presented with a life-altering invitation to leave everything familiar and step into an unknown future. When asked if she will go, she answers without hesitation: "I will go." She stepped forward with clarity and courage, even while facing the unknown.

For the days when we do not feel as brave as Rebecca—when we feel isolated in our stress or paralyzed by our weaknesses—Jesus enters our noisy, exhausting culture with a very different invitation.

In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus says:

"Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart."

Jesus does not command us to strain harder or pull on our bootstraps. Instead, He invites us into a yoke.

A yoke is a wooden double harness used to join two oxen together—often pairing an experienced animal with a younger, less experienced one. As they pull a heavy load as a team, the stronger ox carries the heavier portion of the weight and guides the path.

Jesus is telling us: Stop trying to carry the weight of your life using only your isolated willpower. Step into the harness with Me, and let Me take the heavy side of the load.

Moving Forward Together

As our nation moves beyond its 250th year, and as we face the personal and collective challenges ahead in our families, careers, and communities, we can remember this gospel truth: we were never meant to be bulletproof or entirely self-made.

Falling and stumbling are part of the human story, but failure never gets the final word. Our true strength does not come from perfection, but from the Divine Spirit within us and from the One who walks beside us in the harness. When one ox in a yoke trips, the other helps hold it up until it regains its footing.

We still have much to learn and grow through, but our ultimate identity does not rest in radical individualism. It rests in our connection to one another and to Christ, who walks beside us every step of the way.

Amen.